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building independence through ils coaching

how structured coaching empowers adults with disabilities to thrive in daily life

Giovanny Sarabia headshot by Giovanny Sarabia
aug 27, 2025 8 min read

why ils works

independent living services build real skills through practice and coaching. progress grows when goals are clear, steps are small, and support is consistent. ils is guided practice that turns routines into confidence at home and in the community.

independence grows when support is structured, respectful, and measurable

at bttr. participants set the pace. coaching matches strengths, communication style, culture, and access needs. we document what works so everyone can see growth over time.

sdp friendly our ils coaching can align to goals in self determination budgets when appropriate. we help coordinate with your team so momentum stays steady.

the bttr. approach

clear goals

write goals in plain language and define success using checkpoints anyone can verify.

practice plan

turn goals into weekly actions. use checklists, visuals, and prompts that reduce stress and support follow through.

consistent reporting

share monthly updates with participants, families, and coordinators so decisions stay informed.

bttr. coaches teach with modeling, guided practice, and fade strategies so independence strengthens without pressure.

skill tracks

coaching organizes life tasks into six tracks. choose what matters now and adjust as life changes.

bttr. life

daily routines, hygiene, cleaning, laundry, time use, home safety, appointments, transportation basics.

bttr. money

budgeting, card safety, saving plans, bill reminders, banking habits, supported shopping.

bttr. tech

phone basics, secure passwords, maps, ride apps, calendar, telehealth, assistive tools.

bttr. health

medication routines, sleep, simple meals, hydration, activity goals, health portals.

bttr. express

communication skills, self advocacy, forms, simple scripts for calls and visits.

bttr. connect

community participation, friendships, classes, volunteering, safe social plans.

in person and remote

coaching can be in person, remote, or hybrid. remote sessions use phone or video with shared checklists and simple visuals. hybrid plans mix home practice with short remote check ins for accountability.

remote works best when
  • tasks are clear and safe to practice without in home help
  • a weekly checklist or visual plan guides the routine
  • short check ins keep momentum between visits

how coaching flows

1. welcome and setup

confirm contact info, preferences, safety needs, and schedule. review current goals and select first skills to practice.

2. assessment and plan

map strengths, barriers, and supports. write a plan with weekly actions and clear checkpoints.

3. weekly coaching

focus on doing the task. coach models, guides, then fades help. add tools like timers, labels, or phone reminders.

4. track progress

log practice, note what worked, and adjust. monthly summaries keep everyone aligned.

family and team role

families and housemates are partners. share simple tips that match the plan so support stays consistent. case managers receive clear updates that show progress and next steps.

reports and safety

bttr. shares monthly reports with participants, families when permitted, and case managers. within the first month we complete a safety plan that covers home safety, contacts, alerts, and preferences.

open safety plan form

get started

bttr. serves alameda and contra costa communities including oakland, fremont, hayward, alameda, san leandro, san lorenzo, newark, union city, richmond, concord, walnut creek, and nearby cities.

refer a participant

email the referral packet and we will follow up quickly with next steps.

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ask a question

write to our team for quick support.

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call us

we are happy to help by phone.

call (510) 709 5809

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